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Shahrukh Athar
VALUES · 10 min read

Core Values List: 200+ Values, With Examples of Each in Action

Core values are the small number of things that actually decide your choices when two good options pull in different directions. This core values list gives you 231 personal values in 12 groups, and each one comes with a single line describing what the value looks like when someone genuinely lives it, not what it means in a dictionary.

A list is a starting point, not an answer. Almost every value sounds admirable, so most people tick twenty words and learn very little. What tells you something is which value wins when it collides with another: the hierarchy, not the list. The sections below show how to use the list to get there, followed by the full list, worked examples and the exact questions to find your own.

What are core values?

A value is a standard you use to judge whether something is worth doing, keeping or walking away from. It is usually an abstract noun — freedom, security, recognition, loyalty — and you rarely notice it until it is threatened. Your core values are the few at the top of the order: the ones that hold when everything else gives way.

Two points matter more than any definition. First, values are tied to context: what matters to you about work may differ sharply from what matters to you in a relationship. Second, there is often a gap between the values people state and the ones that govern their behaviour under pressure. The values framework calls these stated and operational values, and most of the useful work happens in that gap.

How to use this list

Read the list with one context in mind — your career, your marriage, your business — rather than your whole life at once. Then work through three steps.

  1. Shortlist. Mark every value that produces a physical reaction as you read it, not every value you approve of. Aim for 15 to 25. If you mark almost a whole group, keep its strongest two.
  2. Test against real choices. For each value on the shortlist, find a specific decision in the last two years where it cost you something — money, time, comfort or approval — and you honoured it anyway. If you cannot find one, move the value to a separate column called “aspirations”. It may matter to you, but it is not yet running your life.
  3. Rank by conflict. Take the surviving values in pairs and ask which one you would protect if you could only keep one. Freedom or security? Loyalty or honesty? The order that emerges is your working hierarchy.

The full list of values (231 values in 12 groups)

Each value below has a one-line example of the behaviour that shows it in practice. Use those lines as a test: if the behaviour does not describe you on an ordinary week, the value may be one you admire rather than one you live.

Integrity & character 21

Values about who you are when nobody is checking and the cost of the truth is real.

Honesty
You say what is true even when a vaguer answer would be easier to give.
Integrity
Your private choices match your public statements, including the ones nobody would ever find out about.
Accountability
You name your own part in a failure before anyone has to ask.
Responsibility
You treat what is in your care as yours to see through, not to hand back.
Authenticity
You behave the same way in the boardroom, at home and with strangers.
Loyalty
You stand by people when it is inconvenient, not only when it is rewarded.
Trustworthiness
People hand you sensitive information and it goes no further than you.
Reliability
When you say Thursday, it arrives on Thursday without a reminder.
Courage
You act on what you believe is right while still feeling the fear.
Humility
You credit others readily and ask questions in areas where you are weak.
Fairness
You apply the same rules to people you like and people you don’t.
Justice
You speak up when someone is treated wrongly, even if it costs you standing.
Transparency
You show your reasoning and your numbers so others can check them.
Sincerity
Your compliments and apologies are meant, so you give them less often than most.
Commitment
You keep going with a promise after the initial enthusiasm has worn off.
Honour
You keep your word as if your name depended on it, because it does.
Dignity
You hold yourself with composure and refuse to treat anyone as beneath you.
Respect
You listen fully to people you disagree with before deciding what you think.
Self-respect
You walk away from arrangements that require you to keep shrinking yourself.
Conviction
You hold a position under pressure because you have thought it through.
Candour
You give direct feedback early instead of letting a problem quietly grow.

Achievement & mastery 20

Values about getting better, getting things done and having something to show for the effort.

Achievement
You set concrete goals and feel restless until they are actually met.
Ambition
You aim at targets that others call unrealistic and plan how to reach them.
Competence
You would rather do fewer things properly than many things badly.
Mastery
You practise the unglamorous fundamentals long after others have moved on.
Success
You measure your year against clear outcomes, not against how busy it felt.
Determination
You come back to the same obstacle the next day with a different approach.
Perseverance
You keep working through the long, dull middle of a project.
Drive
You start before you are asked and are usually the last to stop.
Hard work
You put in the hours the result actually needs, not the hours that look good.
Productivity
You protect your best hours for the work that moves things forward.
Results
You judge plans by what they produce, not by how elegant they sound.
Winning
You study the scoreboard and adjust until you come out ahead.
Expertise
People bring you their hardest questions because you know the field in depth.
Challenge
You pick the harder assignment because the easy one would bore you.
Focus
You say no to good opportunities to finish the one that matters most.
Initiative
You spot what needs doing and do it without waiting for permission.
Resilience
After a setback you take the lesson, recover your footing and go again.
Progress
You track small, steady gains and notice when things have stalled.
Effectiveness
You choose the approach that actually works over the one you prefer.
Competitiveness
You find out who is best at something and work to beat them.

Freedom & independence 16

Values about choosing for yourself: your time, your direction and the terms you work on.

Freedom
You arrange your life so that few people can dictate how you spend it.
Independence
You make your own decisions and accept that the consequences are yours too.
Autonomy
You do your best work when you are given the outcome, not the method.
Self-reliance
You learn to fix things yourself before you think of asking for help.
Choice
You keep several options open and resist commitments that close them too early.
Flexibility
You change plans without fuss when circumstances shift under you.
Spontaneity
You say yes to the unplanned invitation and rearrange the rest later.
Privacy
You decide carefully what you share, with whom, and keep the rest to yourself.
Self-determination
You set your own direction rather than following the path laid out for you.
Individuality
You keep your own tastes and opinions even when the group goes another way.
Nonconformity
You question “how it’s always done” and will do it differently if it’s better.
Solitude
You deliberately make time alone to think, recover and hear yourself.
Mobility
You keep life light enough to move city, country or career when needed.
Ownership
You prefer building something that is yours to renting a place in someone else’s plan.
Variety
You rotate projects, routes and routines because sameness drains you.
Time freedom
You trade a higher income for control over your own calendar.

Security & stability 19

Values about protecting what you have and knowing the ground will hold tomorrow.

Security
You make decisions that reduce the chance of losing what you have built.
Stability
You choose the steady job, house or relationship over the exciting gamble.
Financial security
You keep savings, insurance and a buffer before spending on extras.
Wealth
You build assets deliberately and think in years and decades, not months.
Financial independence
You work towards the point where money no longer decides your choices.
Safety
You check the risks first and make sure the people with you are protected.
Predictability
You like knowing what next week holds and plan your life around it.
Certainty
You gather facts until you are sure before you commit to a decision.
Prudence
You weigh the downside of a decision as seriously as the upside.
Thrift
You spend carefully, repair before replacing and dislike waste of any kind.
Tradition
You keep the customs you inherited and pass them on to the next generation.
Consistency
You behave the same way week after week so people know what to expect.
Comfort
You arrange your surroundings so that daily life is easy and unhurried.
Preparedness
You have a plan, and a backup plan, before you need either of them.
Home
You put real effort into a place where you and yours feel settled.
Routine
You rely on fixed daily habits to keep the important things happening.
Caution
You wait, watch and test before trusting a new person or opportunity.
Protection
You step in to shield the people who depend on you from harm.
Continuity
You keep what works running smoothly rather than reinventing it each year.

Connection & belonging 20

Values about the people around you: being close, being part of something and being known.

Love
You show up for the people you love in ways they can actually feel.
Family
You arrange work and plans around the needs of your family first.
Friendship
You stay in touch over years and turn up when a friend is struggling.
Belonging
You seek out groups where you are known and invest in staying part of them.
Community
You give time to your street, mosque, church, club or town without being asked.
Intimacy
You let a few people see your fears and doubts, not just your achievements.
Companionship
You prefer doing ordinary things alongside someone to doing them alone.
Partnership
You make big decisions jointly and share both the credit and the load.
Connection
You ask the second question and remember the answer next time.
Acceptance
You let people be who they are without pressing them to change.
Teamwork
You care more about the team’s result than about your own visible part in it.
Cooperation
You look for the arrangement that works for everyone, not just for you.
Trust
You give people the benefit of the doubt until they give you a reason not to.
Openness
You share what you think and feel rather than keeping people guessing.
Affection
You express warmth readily through words, time and physical presence.
Togetherness
You protect shared meals, rituals and time as non-negotiable.
Heritage
You keep your language, stories and roots alive in how you live.
Inclusion
You notice who is left out of the room and bring them in.
Harmony
You smooth tensions early and avoid conflict that is not worth the damage.
Communication
You say what you need clearly and check that you were understood.

Care & contribution 20

Values about what you give: to people, to causes and to whatever outlasts you.

Compassion
You move towards someone’s suffering instead of looking away from it.
Kindness
You do small, unasked-for things that make another person’s day easier.
Generosity
You give time, money or credit freely and do not keep score.
Service
You measure a good day by how useful you were to someone else.
Contribution
You want your work to leave something better than you found it.
Helpfulness
You notice when someone is stuck and offer a hand before they ask.
Empathy
You try to feel the situation from inside the other person’s shoes.
Charity
You set aside a regular share of what you earn for people in need.
Patience
You let people learn at their own pace without showing your frustration.
Forgiveness
You let go of a grievance rather than carrying it into every future meeting.
Gentleness
You deliver hard news softly and handle vulnerable people with care.
Hospitality
You open your home and table easily and make guests feel expected.
Mentorship
You spend time developing people who could one day overtake you.
Stewardship
You look after shared resources as if the next generation is watching.
Sustainability
You change habits and purchases to reduce harm to the environment.
Advocacy
You use your voice and position for people who have less of either.
Equality
You push for the same opportunities and standards for everyone involved.
Selflessness
You put others’ needs ahead of your own comfort without making a show of it.
Nurturing
You create conditions where people, plants or projects can grow steadily.
Consideration
You think about how your choices land on others before you make them.

Growth & learning 19

Values about understanding more, seeing more clearly and becoming more capable over time.

Growth
You choose situations that stretch you, even when they are uncomfortable.
Learning
You are always partway through a book, course or skill you have chosen.
Curiosity
You ask “why” and “how” until you genuinely understand how something works.
Knowledge
You check sources and keep notes so that what you know is reliable.
Wisdom
You consider long-term consequences and the people affected before you act.
Self-improvement
You review your own habits regularly and work on the weakest one.
Open-mindedness
You change your view when the evidence is better than your current opinion.
Reflection
You make time to think back on what happened and why it happened.
Self-awareness
You can name your patterns, triggers and blind spots without getting defensive.
Education
You invest money and time in formal learning, for yourself and others.
Understanding
You try to grasp why people believe what they do before judging them.
Insight
You look beneath the obvious explanation for the pattern that actually drives things.
Adaptability
You learn new tools and ways of working quickly when the old ones stop working.
Change
You welcome a fresh start and get restless when nothing is moving.
Rationality
You separate facts from feelings when you are making an important decision.
Truth
You follow the evidence even when it leads somewhere you would rather not go.
Rigour
You test your own conclusions harder than anyone else would test them.
Coachability
You ask for feedback and act on it instead of explaining it away.
Exploration
You wander off the planned route to see what is down the side street.

Creativity & expression 18

Values about making things, seeing differently and putting something of yourself into the world.

Creativity
You regularly make something new, whether a meal, a product or a plan.
Imagination
You picture possibilities in detail before there is any evidence for them.
Innovation
You look for a better way to do a familiar job and then try it.
Originality
You avoid copying and work to find an approach that is recognisably yours.
Self-expression
You let your opinions, style and feelings show in what you say and make.
Beauty
You notice and seek out beautiful things, and arrange your space with care.
Artistry
You treat ordinary work as a craft and care how the finished thing feels.
Craftsmanship
You spend the extra hour on details most people will never notice.
Vision
You can describe clearly where things could be in five years and why.
Experimentation
You try small versions of an idea quickly to see what happens.
Storytelling
You explain ideas through stories so people remember them and act on them.
Ingenuity
You solve problems cleverly with whatever happens to be to hand.
Inspiration
You seek out people, places and work that make you want to create.
Resourcefulness
You find a way through when the budget, time or tools run short.
Wonder
You still stop to marvel at things other people have stopped noticing.
Elegance
You prefer the simple, clean solution over the complicated one that also works.
Style
You make deliberate choices about how you look, speak and present your work.
Boldness
You put unfinished ideas in front of people and accept the risk of failing.

Enjoyment & vitality 22

Values about feeling alive: health, energy, pleasure and the experiences that make a life full.

Health
You protect sleep, food and movement even when work is pressing hard.
Fitness
You train consistently and treat your body’s capability as worth maintaining.
Energy
You notice what drains you and organise your days to stay charged.
Rest
You take proper breaks and holidays without feeling guilty about them.
Balance
You keep work from swallowing the time you need for family, health and rest.
Fun
You build lightness into ordinary days instead of saving it for the weekend.
Joy
You let yourself feel good about small things and say so out loud.
Happiness
You make choices based on how they will feel to live with day to day.
Pleasure
You make room for good food, music and comfort without apologising for it.
Adventure
You go somewhere unfamiliar or try something untested whenever you can.
Excitement
You seek out situations where your heart rate goes up a little.
Humour
You find what is funny in hard situations and use it to ease tension.
Play
You do things purely for the enjoyment of doing them, with no goal attached.
Leisure
You guard unstructured time and spend it however you feel like.
Travel
You spend money on seeing new places rather than on owning more things.
Enthusiasm
You throw yourself into what you are doing and it shows to others.
Optimism
You expect things to work out and look for the opportunity in setbacks.
Celebration
You mark birthdays, wins and milestones properly rather than rushing past them.
Nature
You get outdoors regularly and feel the difference when you have not.
Risk-taking
You accept real uncertainty for the chance of a much better outcome.
Passion
You work on what you care about with an intensity others find hard to match.
Novelty
You try the new restaurant, tool or idea rather than the familiar one.

Influence & leadership 18

Values about shaping outcomes, directing others and being seen to matter.

Leadership
You take charge when a group is drifting and accept the blame if it goes wrong.
Influence
You work to shape decisions even when you do not hold the final vote.
Power
You seek positions where your decisions directly change what happens.
Recognition
You want your contribution seen and named, and you notice when it is not.
Status
You care about titles, rank and how your position compares with your peers.
Authority
You want the right to make the final call and to have it respected.
Decisiveness
You make the call with the information available rather than waiting for certainty.
Persuasion
You enjoy bringing sceptical people round to your point of view.
Reputation
You weigh how a choice will look to people whose opinion you value.
Assertiveness
You state your needs and limits plainly without aggression or apology.
Strategy
You think several moves ahead and plan the sequence before acting.
Empowerment
You hand real decisions to others and back them when they make them.
Visibility
You put yourself and your work in front of the people who matter.
Impact
You choose work by the size of the difference it will make.
Control
You prefer to hold the key decisions yourself rather than leave them to chance.
Advancement
You plan your next role and actively pursue the steps to reach it.
Diplomacy
You handle sensitive conversations so that everyone keeps their dignity.
Confidence
You act on your own judgement without needing constant reassurance.

Faith, meaning & spirit 19

Values about what life is for and your relationship to something larger than yourself.

Faith
You let your belief in God guide your decisions, including the costly ones.
Spirituality
You make regular time for practices that connect you to something beyond yourself.
Purpose
You can say in one sentence what you are here to do and organise around it.
Meaning
You turn down well-paid work that feels empty in favour of work that matters.
Gratitude
You notice and name what is good, including what others did to make it possible.
Peace
You avoid drama and work to keep a calm mind and a calm home.
Devotion
You keep your prayers, practices and commitments faithfully, day after day.
Presence
You give whoever is in front of you your full attention, phone away.
Mindfulness
You notice your thoughts and reactions as they arise instead of being swept along.
Contentment
You appreciate what you already have rather than constantly chasing more.
Serenity
You stay steady when things go wrong around you and help others settle.
Legacy
You make choices with an eye on what will remain after you are gone.
Transcendence
You seek experiences that take you beyond your own small concerns.
Hope
You keep working towards a better outcome when the evidence is still thin.
Reverence
You treat sacred things, places and people with visible care and respect.
Surrender
You do your part fully, then accept the outcome you cannot control.
Conscience
You listen to the quiet inner sense of right and wrong, and act on it.
Ritual
You keep regular observances that mark time and give your days a shape.
Unity
You look for what joins people rather than what divides them.

Order & excellence 19

Values about doing things properly: structure, standards and work that holds up under inspection.

Excellence
You will not hand over work that you know could be meaningfully better.
Quality
You would rather deliver less, later, than deliver something that falls apart.
Discipline
You do what you planned to do whether or not you feel like it today.
Order
You keep your space, files and finances arranged so you can find anything.
Organisation
You run lists, calendars and systems so that nothing important slips.
Precision
You check figures and wording because small errors matter to you.
Efficiency
You cut out unnecessary steps and get the same result with less effort.
Structure
You set clear roles, deadlines and processes before starting a project.
Planning
You map out the steps and the risks before committing time and money.
Thoroughness
You finish the last ten per cent that most people leave undone.
Accuracy
You correct the record, including your own mistakes, as soon as you notice them.
Punctuality
You arrive early and treat other people’s time as seriously as your own.
Cleanliness
You keep your surroundings and belongings clean, and notice quickly when they are not.
Simplicity
You remove clutter, commitments and complications until only the essentials remain.
Clarity
You make sure everyone knows exactly what was decided and who does what.
Professionalism
You keep your standards and composure whatever your mood or the client’s.
Diligence
You do the careful, routine checking that others treat as optional.
Self-control
You pause before reacting and choose your response when you are provoked.
Moderation
You avoid extremes and keep habits, spending and opinions within sensible bounds.

Core values examples: stated versus operational

The most revealing core values examples are not lists of words but cases where what someone says and what they do point in different directions. The illustrations below are composites of patterns that come up repeatedly, not real individuals.

Stated values compared with the values that showed up in behaviour
What the person saysWhat they actually didThe operational value
“Family is my number one value.”Took a promotion that meant three nights a week away, after saying it was for the family’s sake.Financial security, with family as the justification for it
“I value freedom above everything.”Stayed eight years in a salaried role they found stifling rather than risk an unpredictable income.Security ranks above freedom when the two collide
“Honesty matters most to me.”Softened bad news to the team so far that nobody understood the project was failing.Harmony ranks above candour, at least at work
“I want to keep growing.”Turned down two stretch roles in a year because the current job was comfortable and well regarded.Competence and status: being good at something known

None of these people are lying. Each of them holds the stated value sincerely. It simply sits lower in the hierarchy than they assume, so when it meets a higher value, it loses. That is why the hierarchy matters more than the list: two people with identical lists can make opposite decisions because their lists are ranked differently.

An example of a values conflict in one decision

A manager deciding whether to report a colleague’s mistake

Loyalty says: “He has covered for me before. Deal with it quietly.”

Integrity says: “The client was charged for work that wasn’t done.”

Security says: “If this comes out later and I knew, it’s my job too.”

What the manager does next shows which of the three is actually at the top in this context.

How to find your core values

Lists help you name values; questions help you find them. Ask about one context at a time, write down the exact words that come back, and keep asking “And what else?” until the answers run dry — in my experience, often after six to ten. The later answers, and the values that appear when you ask about frustration rather than satisfaction, are usually the more revealing ones.

  1. “What’s important to you about your work?” followed by “And what else?”
  2. “Think of a time you felt like walking away. What was missing, or being violated?”
  3. “If you had [value A] but not [value B], would you still be satisfied? And the reverse?”

The full question sequence, how to handle away-from answers such as “not being micromanaged”, and a worked career example are in how to elicit values.

Why your values conflict

Values conflict because they compete for the same limited resources — time, money, attention and risk — and a decision eventually forces a trade. When two values sit close together near the top, or when two people rank the same values in a different order, the same tension returns in every related choice. The values framework explains how that hierarchy drives behaviour and how a values conflict shows up in practice.

Map your own values with the free tools

Two free instruments on this site turn the steps above into something you can complete in one sitting. The Values Inventory helps you name and rank the values that matter in a chosen context. The Values Wheel then shows how well each of your top values is currently being met, which is often where the explanation for a nagging dissatisfaction turns up.

If you want the thinking behind the method, the values framework explains why hierarchy drives behaviour. Values sit close to beliefs and decision patterns, and for work on a team or leadership group, see work with me.

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Values Wheel

Choose the six to eight values that matter most, rate how fully you are living each one right now, and see on one wheel where your life and your values have drifted apart.

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Values Inventory

What you say matters and what actually wins under pressure are often different. This ranks the six value orientations that drive your choices.

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FAQ

Questions people ask

How many core values should you have?

Most people find that three to five values genuinely drive their decisions in any one context. You may recognise twenty, but beyond five or six the ranking becomes guesswork and the list stops guiding choices. A short hierarchy you can name from memory is more useful than a long list you have to look up.

What are the 5 core values?

There is no universal set of five core values. The five that appear most often in personal lists are honesty, family, respect, integrity and growth, but those are popular words rather than a standard. Your five are the ones that win when they conflict with other things you care about, and they will differ from anyone else’s.

What is the difference between values and beliefs?

A value is what matters to you: freedom, security, loyalty. A belief is what you hold to be true about how the world works: for example, that hard work is always rewarded. Beliefs often explain how you try to honour a value. Two people can share a value and hold very different beliefs about how to achieve it.

Can core values change?

Yes, though usually slowly. Within a context, the order tends to be fairly stable for years in the research literature (for example Shalom Schwartz’s work on basic human values). It shifts with major events such as becoming a parent, a serious illness, losing a job or reaching a goal you chased for a long time. Often the words stay the same and their ranking changes, which is easy to miss without re-checking.

What are examples of core values at work?

Common examples at work include accountability, excellence, autonomy, recognition, teamwork, security and impact. They show up in behaviour: someone who values autonomy bristles at close supervision, while someone who values recognition notices immediately when their contribution goes unmentioned. The order matters more than the words, because it predicts which trade-offs a person will accept.

How do I find my core values quickly?

Pick one context, shortlist values from a list, then test each against a real decision where honouring it cost you something. Keep only the ones that pass, and rank them in pairs by asking which you would protect if you could keep only one. The free Values Inventory on this site walks through the same steps.